Why am I single?
Someone asked me this and I want to ponder it. Here are reasons I can think of:
Because I don’t know anyone I want to be in a relationship with. I don’t want to date any of the people I know.
Because I’m a bit closed off.
Because I don’t get out enough. As my dad says, “you’re probably not gonna meet your husband in your living room”.
Because I get preoccupied with exciting people who aren’t actually the types of people I want to end up with, but I like them enough to let them take up space in my world, space that could be filled by people who are actually what I’m looking for.
Because love is scary.
Because I feel unworthy and I let that stop me from venturing out into the great unknown.
Because ????¿??¿?¿???
Because everyone I fall for is as out of their mind as I am and neither of us want to commit to the foolishness we cultivate with one another.
Because I’m lazy.
Because I’m used to being single.
Because I don’t believe it could be any other way. I can’t actually envision another option.
Because Justin Bieber isn’t married to Selena Gomez yet which means I still have a chance HAHA
Because that’s how my life has happened so far.
(via crazed-curiosity)




